This is only Information Hub for Filipino Au Pairs not a Recruitment Agency

To all visitors this blog is done in good faith and with no bad intentions. The purpose of this site is for information only it does not in any way intend to do harm nor misuse this domain as other see it.
How can I misuse this domain when I only post information about au pair rights and where to get the right information. If you want to become au pair then this site will help or guide  you to find the information you  needed but I will never intend to advertise nor refer you to any particular Au pair Agency.

I temporary disable the chikahan or Cbox because other misunderstood the concept of this site if that is comment then it will be labeled as a spam. I just do this in my spare time so I can not check the cbox all the time and answer them. So I better set up a contact form then I can answer by mail or just leave a comment then I can reply whenever I’m free.  I’m am not Pamela and I don’t have an agency so I can not find you any host family because that is not the purpose of this site. If you are looking for Pamela then you are in the wrong site nevertheless just browse the post which might also help you informed. Pamela, search and look if you can find if I said something wrong about your agency or you as person or even your husband. You have your business and this site is totally different from yours,  it is 100% not your competition. I don’t get your client nor offer them anything.  If you are sincere in helping au pairs then you would thank me for making this effort.Like you stated in the cbox in this site I quote that it helps your business so why are you  accusing me of misusing your domain.  This is an Aupair AWARENESS site not a HATE site.

This is a nonprofit borne out compassion to countless Filipina(o) aupairs who life became miserable when they became au pair because of illegal recruiters who charge them sky high where their families sold their properties and those who had cruel host families. I don’t get any incentives or financial help in fact I paid this site by sacrificing a little bit and maintain it during my free time that’s why I haven’t posted much due lack of free time. Beside being a mother, a wife and student. I also a daughter who visits my ailing father in the hospital and share the heavy burden my mother carry on her shoulder. I’m also that doing something for the community without expecting nothing in return.  That is why I encourage those who are really sincere to provide help by means of posting informations or stories without conflict of interest to contribute in this site to create awareness.

Au Pair is still ban on the Philippines so Filipinas(os) who leave our country to work as au pair are helpless and very susceptible to scams by both Filipinos and other nationalities aside fromthe misuse of the au pair scheme by the host families. Despite  the ban thousand and thousand of Filipinos leave the Philippines to worked as an au pair without any orientation of what awaits them in the host countries. Unlike the OFW (Overseas Filipino Worker) or contract worker they have to go through medical check up and h . Let us not only blame the host families but the ignorance of the au pair scheme. Lack of information is the culprit if you ask Filipinos they don’t know what is an au pair. They still regards Filipino aupairs as domestic helpers or maid which is not the case check this stories http://www.gmanews.tv/story/154015/Filipinos-work-in-Norway-as-au-pairs-despite-ban & http://www.gmanews.tv/story/148265/Pinoys-in-Nordic-countries-urged-to-register-for-2010-RP-elections

I did not came here in Denmark as an au pair but I know a lot of au pairs and heard their stories on how they were being mistreated or almost used as slaved. As early as 2004 the Filipino community in Denmark were already alarmed by the problems of the Filipino au pairs  which was brought to attention to the first Pulong ng Bayan in 2004 at Helsingborg where I joined together with the rest of the Babaylan Denmark and  other Filipino organization in Nordic countries. The embassy can not do anything because of the ban and there is no bilateral agreements  between Denmark and the Philippines so the au pair have to rely on themselves or seek help from different Filipino organizations when they have problems.

But who can help them if they themselves will not report their situations to the authorities. How many Filipino au pairs who said NO when their host family ask them to work more than the allowed working hours or  not part of their job, I think not too many can muster to say NO when they are not aware of their rights. That is why I created this au pair  awareness blog to know the au pair rights. It is not fair that the host families use their au pairs as “maids”, or domestic helpers and just pay them 2,500 danish Kroner. But Filipinos should not also forget that they also have the responsibility to know their rights and say NO if they are being mistreated. That what this awareness came into being that even just a little bit can save a soul from ignorance. Filipino Au pairs should also know the culture and the language and vice versa which is the true meaning of au pair.

So if you are a visitor avail of the free gestures by browsing thru the post and leave a relevant comment. I’m not an expert but I can refer you to the people or website that are knowledgeable in the au pairs right. Once more this is not an agency so I can not accommodate if you ask me to assist you to find host family. There’s a lot of agency out there free or with fee  but I wish you all Goodluck.

Do you think I misuse this site or domain? What do you think?